That's true. People can change if that's what they desire. [Even the Cloud she knew back home had some slight changes in him. Subtle though they were. Subtlety was not equivalent to absence, after all.]

I think other people decide when we're charming. Not us. After all, if someone was going to ask me what I thought it meant, I'd probably not be able to answer that. But I could tell someone that I thought you were a little charming.