That is not a reason to use fear.

[He says it gently but firmly. By all accounts, Gu Yun had been a brat when he was a child as well but, if given the chance, Chang Geng still would have spoiled him.

Then again, he was in love with the man so like…he’ll be honest and admit there is some bias there.

But even without it.]

While there may be circumstances where fear might be the only choice but those would only be in life or death situations. [Even then…if it were his child he’d prefer to make it so those circumstances never happen.]